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    Book Review: ‘The Tiny Things Are Heavier’ – A Journey Through Identity and Belonging

    Esther Lombardi by Esther Lombardi
    06/23/2025
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    Esther Ifesinachi Okonkwo’s debut novel, The Tiny Things Are Heavier, explores young adulthood, migration, and family relationships. Set in the U.S., it follows a Nigerian woman’s journey through identity, cultural dislocation, and the emotional burdens of chasing dreams.

    The Protagonist’s Journey

    The story centers on Sommy, a young Nigerian woman. She travels to Iowa for graduate studies. Just two weeks before she leaves, her brother Mezie attempts suicide, which leaves Sommy dealing with guilt and responsibility. These feelings shape her journey as she adapts to a new culture while managing her brother’s silence.

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    Cultural Dislocation

    Sommy’s move to Iowa brings loneliness and homesickness. She struggles to find her place in this new environment. The author skillfully shows how Sommy’s Nigerian identity clashes with American norms. This tension is clear as she tries to connect with her peers but often feels like an outsider.

    Relationships and Complications

    Sommy’s relationships are key to her journey. She has a complicated bond with her Nigerian roommate, Bayo, who loves her. However, Sommy is drawn to Bryan, a biracial American with Nigerian roots. This love triangle adds complexity to the story, as Sommy navigates her feelings and friendships.

    The Weight of Guilt

    Her brother’s struggles haunt Sommy. Her attempts to reach him receive no response, deepening her guilt and helplessness. This emotional turmoil colors her experiences in America. It highlights how family bonds impact one’s sense of self. Okonkwo’s portrayal of mental health issues amid cultural expectations deepens the narrative. It prompts you to think about the stigmas surrounding mental illness.

    A Journey Back Home

    As the story develops, Sommy and Bryan travel to Nigeria. They hope to confront their pasts and find closure. This trip is a crucial moment, allowing Sommy to reconnect with her roots and address her brother’s unresolved issues. The vibrant depiction of Nigeria contrasts with her life in Iowa, emphasizing her dual identity as an immigrant and daughter.

    The Complexity of Family Dynamics

    Okonkwo’s look at family dynamics is compelling. Sommy’s bond with her mother is tense, as cultural expectations clash with her desire for independence. The author shows how family obligations shape choices and identity, creating a rich emotional landscape. Sommy’s journey of self-discovery intertwines with her efforts to reconcile her past and present.

    Themes of Belonging and Identity

    At its heart, The Tiny Things Are Heavier explores belonging and identity. Sommy’s struggle to fit in reflects the experiences of many immigrants facing cultural challenges. Okonkwo’s writing encourages you to consider how personal experiences and societal expectations shape identity.

    The Role of Art and Expression

    Art is a key theme in the novel, serving as a way to cope with emotional struggles. Sommy’s painting helps her express feelings and understand her identity. This exploration of creativity shows how self-expression matters during hard times and offers hope for those facing migration challenges.

    The Impact of Tragedy

    An unexpected tragedy during Sommy’s trip to Nigeria marks a turning point. This event forces her to confront life’s fragility and her complex relationships. Okonkwo’s portrayal of grief is raw and poignant, showing how loss affects one’s sense of self and belonging. The aftermath drives Sommy toward a deeper understanding of her identity and family ties.

    A Powerful Debut

    Esther Ifesinachi Okonkwo’s The Tiny Things Are Heavier is a beautifully crafted debut. Through Sommy’s journey, the author delves into identity, familial expectations, and cultural dislocation. The novel’s rich prose and emotional depth make it compelling as you explore the immigrant experience.

    Okonkwo’s narrative shines as a testament to resilience in a world where the search for belonging is universal. As you join Sommy, reflect on your identities, love, and family connections. This debut novel is more than just about migration. It celebrates the human experience, filled with hope, heartache, and self-discovery.

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    Esther A. Lombardi is a freelance writer and journalist with more than two decades of experience writing for an array of publications, online and offline. She also has a master's degree in English Literature with a background in Web Technology and Journalism. 

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